Hey Everyone
Well..the last few days have been “those kind of days” I guess would be the way to say it. Lots of family drama. Just got to love when people show their true colors in a trying time right?
My mom and Dad have been taking Friday evening as their evening to stay with my dads mom at the nursing home. Now just keep in mind for the last 5 weeks my mom has taken it upon herself to work with my dads brothers and sisters and whatnot to get a schedule of who is staying what not and all of that. Anyways, Friday night has became their night. Now my dad gets up about 4 a/m and goes to work- he gets ofF EARLY at 4 (not almost 7 pm) and they drive about 3 hours up the road in friday traffic. then they spend the whole night essentially not sleeping either..
Anyways when they got there this Friday they made the determination along with 3 other of my dads sisters and brothers that they thought she would be better off moved to the hospital at that time. It took till nearly 2 a/m to get this done (and they started the process around 7:30 pm) It was a HOT MESS. Turns out this whole she has been actively dying thing that everyone kept being fed from hospice for the last 5 weeks was total BS and she has only pretty well had a UTI this entire time and that she had all the signs of sepsis!
Well my mom and dad got her settled and whatnot at the hospital- still with no sleep for my dad since 4 a/m the previous morning (Friday) and they head home and got here about 930 a/m on Saturday. Then I had some cousins trying to run their mouth on FB in our private group and basically acting like you can will someone to live or die and saying all kinds of stupid crap on and on . .. of course my mom was trying to you know -rest as well as my dad and I really didn’t know what to say but just let them make fools of themselves for the most part. They pretty much act like you should put her in a room with boards on the windows and not give her any food or water!
David and I had went to vote and go to visit his dad and bro for a few minutes and that is when my mom got up and boy lets just say she was mad and basically just cut it down in the group – as far as making them hush. Well I am only “friends” with one of these 2 cousins on my FB and she kept making passive aggressive /vague statuses and well I am sarcastic by nature and I kept poking along lol. Then the other one was doing the same thing and well it didn’t take long for 99.99% of the family to be like seriously? wtf?
They have basically blasted everyone in the family from A-Z and its o.k I admit I don’t be close to them and I don’t visit and stuff but still I don’t wish bad on anyone who is suffering and if someone wanted water I’d give it to them too you know? I mean I don’t care.
I kept poking along yesterday too, and last night about 1:30 I went to the bathroom and woke up to a messge from my mom that they were on the way up there because they had been called in so.. this morning when I was checking things I realized that I Had been unfriended but I had been unfriended with most of the family including my mom, my aunts and several cousins and it cracked me up. Then I came to find out that the girl i wasn’t even “Friends” with on there BLOCKED Me and that really got a good laugh out of me! Seriously GROW Up you know?
I had started having some problems with my Google Pixel phone so I had to change- basically it was dropping every call I made/received and here I could talk on David’s phone until the cows come home and it is fine and dandy. Well thankfully I was within the 14 day return period. I ended up having to get a IPHONE 6+S so.. BLAH it isn’t android but it is o.k lol I will throw an nice case on it and pick up the pieces and move on i guess lol
My sleep last night was so 2 and 2- like sleep two hours and awake 2 hours and everything I was really looking forward to a nap but my grandma called and then I accidentally cut her off and spent like 20 min trying to get back with her and couldn’t and somehow another her phone had went crazy at the same time so.. anyways its pretty much too late for a nap now 🙁
I am doing a little bit better with my mood and attitude in general. I went back on my ST Johns wort last Friday – kinda gradually realized I was mildly depressed and it seems to be starting to kick in so that is great. I had hoped to do more today but with it being cool and dreary and with things going on in the family I kind of got distracted but it is all good 🙂
i’m gonna get off here and grab some coffee and see what else i can manage to do before David gets home 🙂
