if you read this / comment you deserve cookies lol
I made a tweet last night that I was about ready to tell someone off. I continued a few minutes later mentioning it was David’s dad. I however didn’t manage to tweet the reset of the story.
Lets rewind back about 2 years or so ago. Right after David’s mom left his dad. We were living with my mom and dad when this first happened. David loaned his dad $400 for a security deposit so he could move to another apartment place.
Key word there is LOANED. At the time his dad was working less than 20hrs a week at the car wash and even less when it rained/threatened to rain and/or they got sent home.
Not long after he moved he lost the job at the car wash. he made it through a few months where he had got his tax money back and whatnot. Then he had to let it all go and move to the mountains with his brother since he didn’t have money and we sure as heck wouldn’t keep him or davids mom wasn’t going to take him back!
Fast forward to Him moving down here in late April and..ME getting in MY MESS this summer. We had not even brought up the topic of him OWING the money to us..We just hadn’t “went there” so to speak. We were going to let him get settled down here and go from there with it.
Truth of the matter is with the mess/drama I have managed to get into it’s going to cost MAJOR MONEY to get out of. i’m talking to the tune of right at 1750(perhaps I might get $250 dropped depending on if something gets accepted beforehand and one of the other fees might get reduced) (plus I already paid 108 towards it)
On our own(which includes me)/with my mom’s help we have came up with 900(-100=800). This is where it gets good, I promise. David asked his dad to BORROW $300. Not hey, pay us the freaking money you owe us, but BORROW. I will try to not go there right now though. Anyways, his dad agrees to let us borrow $300 which bumped me to $1100 which means I need somewhere between 400-650.
I have a while to get the money..not sure WHEN i have to have it by but it will be sometime next year after tax time. I don’t HAVE to HAVE all of it even then, but to avoid certain things it would be best to pay it right out if at all possible.
His Dad will NOT SHUT THE HECK up about the money. Even before he let David borrow it it’s all we freaking heard about. He kept saying he was wanting to talk to us both about it. I’m like ok look David might be borrowing the money because of me, but this is between you two! If I was gonna ask to borrow money i’d go to my parents because A. They wouldn’t hound the heck out of me over it and B. They would probably give me some towards the situation anyways, just like they already have.
The only reason david “borrowed” (don’t get me started on why he just doesn’t be like hey yo you owe me this because I can’t get that out of him) money is because he’ll probably get cut to 32 hours this winter and won’t be able to give me any towards it for a while.
Anyways his dad KNEW the situation and knew that we would NOT be able to start paying back until we have what we need…and this will be a while off. Anyways we were up at Z’s last night listening to music and his dad kept saying things like “Oh I wish you could pay me now” “My scooter has costed $300 to get repaired all together (Amazing !! 300!!) and other things to that afect. It totally peed me off and we left really early on!
I totally want to either A. Give the money back, which would set us WAY off track or B. tell him he owes us another hundred! David won’t let me do the 2nd one. I cannot understand why. I have a feeling though that I won’t be able to keep my mouth shut though.. thats all I can say. I know one thing though I won’t be aggravated over this for goodness only knows how long! and I won’t be hearing things like well you went to eat/bought blah blah blah and you could have gave me that money towards what you owe me either!
So Today I have been totally obsessed with all this mess again ๐ I couldn’t go back to sleep when David left..Took A shower.. tried to go to sleep..kept thinking about it.. got up and did all my math.. realized we needed $200 more than I originally thought because I forgot to add something in… and now i’m all kinda in a hissy! ๐