well I made it back from court! It was so stressful even though I had called my lawyer, because she didn't show up till 4 minutes before the Judge came! She never even called anyone into the hallway, she just stepped out there and was waiting I guess? I don't really know but we had been sitting there over an hour and my head was busting and David walked out there and then i finally did too! she said I have to come back on 12/19 UGH....she said that is the last court date this year, so apparently they were going to let it be longer but since they didnt have a calendar for next year, I guess that is why they did it. Believe me my lawyer does NOT volunteer anything that you dont stand there and directly ask her! I promise after today, I will quit writing about this mess at least till right before court again lol. also 12/19 is also davids work christmas party. at least I can celebrate afterwards no> lol Anyways apparently she is waiting on the right judge to have it threw out … [Read more...]

hi there ..2 updates in one day. be alarmed lol I am sitting here in bed, we came up here around 8. I should have taken a bubble bath and got some cider..if it wasnt already after 10 I would probably go and do it anyways! Meh! I am getting a horrible sore throat too ugh! I have calmed down quite a bit from earlier and I am just trying to remain positive that maybe on some miracle level it will get threw out after all tomorrow. Why not? I have a list of things a mile long to get done when I get back into the swing of things , which will hopefully be tomorrow. I dont know if David is going to go ahead and stay home or go back to work or what. I do want to get some emails sent and a post or 2 done. Honestly I probably dont have that much to do I just have to round up all my to do lists and see what I have. I really want to get a review up! we will see how it goes. I just wanted to write a few lines before I cuddle up for bed. … [Read more...]

So I Did end up taking the weekend off mostly, even though I didn't really plan it! Friday is a blur, (always..lol) Then on Saturday we went to the flea marker with my mom and dad. They tricked me though I swear! I thought we were going to the flea market in the mountains, and we ended up at the one a few minutes down the road and I was really disappointed. In 25 years of living here I have only got one thing at that flea market and that was Shadow, and I wasn't even there when David got him! Afterwards we went out to lunch at KFC and then when we got home I told David I was going to nap for a little while, since he was going to take his dad to the animal shelter to get a dog or whatever. I was drifting off when David called and told me that Marley was at the animal shelter. Our neighbors that had lived behind us forever, had a little black dog named marley, and she LOVED me and David. She spent most of the day over here laying in our doorway. She would go nuts anytime we … [Read more...]

Howdy there! I went to bed REALLY early last night. I didnt get my bubble bath/massage but I did have some cider, a warm blanket i added to the bed, my fire place heater we brought out, and even reversed ceiling fan blades. I think David turned on the heater sometime another early this morning so it wouldn't be cold on me when he left to go to work It is almost 730 and I have no idea why I am still awake. I started piddling on working on a review and just a little bit of this and that. I would probably do best to stay up but it is 30 degrees and dark and I just want to burrow :) I have decided to not finish the rest of blogtober right now, I just need a break from that...It is making me feel too overwhelmed with everything going on right now. I am not saying I won't finish it at some point but right now it is on my back burner.Court is coming up tuesday and I can't say I am falling into a tiny little bit of depression/anxiety over it. .blah!! I still want to schedule up a … [Read more...]